It is not easy to be a parent.
One of the times when that is the case is when you have to let your child make their own mistakes. This is something that I'm not always good at (and sometimes rather terrible at).
Luckily, the mistakes my kids make that I need to allow to happen are really quite small. (I look at the parents of teens and adults and wonder how hard it must be when they have to let their kids learn "the hard way" on bigger stuff. Although, looking at our world, I kind of wonder if not enough parents allow this to happen. But, I'm not going on about that now!)
This afternoon, I had to use self-control to allow Ashlynn to make some mistakes.
She was painting a picture of Hello Kitty on the easel in the backyard. She first sketched it out with pencil and then started adding the paint.
(Here she went back to draw a bow.)

She loves adding details to her artwork, but she didn't want to take my advice that the giant paintbrush she was using would not allow her to paint the small details she had planned.
The sweet kitty mouth she had hoped for ended up as a big red blob.
She was really disappointed that she had "ruined" her artwork and wanted me to fix it. I knew that it would be a pain, but I *could* fix it with a piece of white paper covering the blob. I decided not to fix it (even though it pained me because I saw how much time she had put into the artwork).
But we talked about what she learned from her mistake. In this case, it was simply that she needs to use a smaller brush when she adds detail.

I wish all lessons could be learned so painlessly!